The marriage you are already in.
Courses, coaching and plain writing on conflict, money, and what happens when one of you drifts from the faith. For good marriages and for the ones that are barely holding. From fifteen years of sitting with couples.
Included with membership
Somewhere to ask the question you would not ask out loud at church.
A room for Adventist couples, and a separate one for people who are still looking. Three rules make it work, and none of them are ever going to change.
You post under any name you like
We will know who you are, of course, because we have your billing details. Nobody else will. Your questions are never attached to anything else you do here.
Nobody can message you privately
There is no way to send a private message to another member, and there never will be. Everything is said in the open, where it can be answered and where it can be reported.
Somebody actually answers
Every question gets a reply, not just from whoever happens to be around. That is the thing you are paying for. The rest of the room is a bonus.
What arrives, and roughly in what order.
The writing
Plain articles on the things Adventist couples actually search for, from marrying outside the faith to what to do when one of you stops going. Free, and always will be.
The first course
One subject, done properly, rather than a library nobody finishes. This is what makes a membership worth buying on the first day.
The room
Opens alongside the course. It is quiet at first, and the answer to that is that we answer, rather than that we fill it with strangers.
The writing starts before anything else does.
Join the list and the articles come to you as they are written, which costs nothing and is useful on its own. When the course and the room open, you will already know whether the person writing them is worth listening to.